Last vacation, we had a long two-hour session with Rommo Shams Bhai, who is currently pursuing his MSc at Aalto University, Finland. He discussed his career goals, and lifestyle, and provided us with detailed suggestions. Now, as I write this, I want to share how we even reached the point where someone from a different time zone would give us his valuable time. This brings us to the importance of communication and connectivity skills. Here are some general tips to enhance your connectivity skills:
When trying to connect with someone, be as humble as you can. Understand that everyone has their own life and responsibilities. If you are asking for a favor, make sure your request is respectful and considerate, ensuring the person is not offended by any of your actions.
Formality can make a significant difference in how you are perceived. Consider the difference between these two approaches:
– Informal: Hi. Bhaia, kemon achen?
– Formal: Assalamu Alaikum Bhaia, I am Sazid of Class XI. I truly appreciate all your good work. I am interested in your guidance on essay writing. Thank you for your time.
Just close your eyes and think about which approach will make the person more interested in you.
People often say that cadets are socially awkward when it comes to meeting people who are not associated with cadet colleges. Do not believe in this dogma, and neither should you. Think of them as your own people, just as you think of your cadet brothers. Politely email them or send them a text asking for a bit of their valuable time. You would be amazed by how supportive these professionals are about your notions.
Connecting with people, whether they are close to you or far away, is an essential skill. By being humble, maintaining formality, and reaching out beyond your immediate community, you can build valuable relationships that will help you in your personal and academic life. Don’t be afraid to take the first step and connect with others—you never know what opportunities it might bring!